Tantra: a Love Story that Keeps Expanding

In 2020, while most people were in quarantine, carefully watching the news, or in the shock of lockdown, I was boarding a plane to Costa Rica to meet a guy from London who’d been romancing me the entire year. He had been sending me gifts, spending time with me on Zoom dates, and chatting with … Continue reading Tantra: a Love Story that Keeps Expanding

Shiva and the High Priestess

Why is Shiva so compatible with the High Priestess? Shiva represents space/ spaciousness that holds up the cosmos. In the same way that outer space keeps expanding, INNER space keeps expanding too. The High Priestess is the guardian and witness of INNER space. She’s the one who’s intimate with the mystery and evolution that happens when we meet what’s … Continue reading Shiva and the High Priestess

Why Waking Down Feels Better than Waking Up

I am really burnt out on patriarchal spirituality (transcendentalism) and much more desiring to come home into my body this year.   Grounding, stabilizing, and loving where I’m at. I notice the more I focus on these themes the more a playful side of me comes out.  Because she feels safe! For a long time I … Continue reading Why Waking Down Feels Better than Waking Up

Masculinity- from Triggering to Healing

'The Lord,' also known as 'the Emperor' in standard decks (and 'this motherfucker again?' in my mind), can actually be an amazing, transformative card to work with. At first I hated seeing him. His mood felt cold, punishing, and heartless. His armor seemed overprotective, the look on his face stern. Taking him in I felt … Continue reading Masculinity- from Triggering to Healing